Being Bare with Alopecia to Having Hair with Freedom Wigs
It is NOT "just hair"
Growing up I had long, wavy hair, (which was attached to a very hard head if you were to ask my Mom).
At age 8, my Aunt Vanessa took me for a haircut, and the stylist noticed a small bald patch on my head; that was the first time I had ever heard the word "Alopecia Areata".
My mother took me to a dermatologist who explained what it was, but the spot did not get bigger, and I had a lot of hair, so it wasn't noticeable. We soon forgot about it and I didn't have any more spots appear until years later.
( Photo: Me with my own hair )
When I was 11 years old, I lost my Dad. He died in his sleep unexpectedly, he was 49 years old. I had a difficult time grieving and accepting that he was really gone, for a very long time. I still miss him very much. I believe the shock of this traumatic time in my life may have triggered my auto-immune response with alopecia.
( Photo: Me, my Mom & my Dad in 2008, 6 months before my Dad passed)
Freshman Year of High School
In March 2012, at fourteen and a freshmen in high school, my hair line began receding. By May, the end of my first year of high school, my hair severely thinned and was full of bald spots, and I did my best to disguise them with headbands and powdered hair fibers. Meanwhile, I began receiving corticosteroid injections from the dermatologist.
(Photo: (Jr.-Sr. Prom)
In the spring of 2013, I decided to shave my head and discontinue the corticosteroid shots. I began wearing a lace-front wig, it did not look as natural as I wanted.
(Photo: Me and my Great Aunt Alyce before going to the Homecoming Dance )
Me & Gilligan
My Mom spent a lot of money to try to find a decent wig, but we soon realized that "regular" wigs were not made for everyday wear so they didn't last long. Regular wigs were very, hot, itchy and uncomfortable, especially if you are bald!
( Photo: Me and my horse Gilligan)
Over the summer, my spots filled in and I returned to school without a wig, but with hair of awkward differing lengths. Just when it seemed that my hair was getting back to normal, 75% of my hair fell out during Thanksgiving break.
(Photo: Me & my biological hair, with my art project, 10th grade)
Here we go again!
For the next few months I clipped extensions to the few strands of hair that were left and wore scarfs and hats in an effort to avoid wearing a wig again.
( Photo: Me and my cousin Dylan one Christmas morning).
This time I not only lost my hair, but I also lost my eyebrows, eyelashes, and all my body hair. I learned that this was called Alopecia Universalis, the rarest form of Alopecia.
My confidence was at an all time low. I didn’t feel pretty, all my wigs would move and shift, and I thought about it constantly.
I had a lot of anxiety every time I went out in public, my biggest fear was that someone would pull my wig off, or it would move if someone touched it.
( Photo: Me and my best friend Spencer)
Finally Finding Freedom !
I had done some research on wigs before I had lost all my hair, and I remembered seeing an ad for a silicone vacuum wig that was intriguing.
I returned to my research and found Freedom Vacuum Wigs (aka Cranial Prosthesis). I brought the research to my mom, finally a wig made for bald people who wear a wig everyday, not for fun! We called our local Freedom agent Ginny who also had alopecia universals, to make an appointment. It was great to meet Ginny, she really "got me" and understood what I was going through. I had ever met anyone who could really understand the way I felt about my hair loss. When Ginny retired, my Mom and we thrilled when we were asked to be in the Freedom Agents in the Southeast,
I was so excited to be able to order the hair color, wave, density, etc. that would be used for MY FREEDOM vacuum wig!
Bare2Hair: My First Look!
Fast forward to the fall of 2013, I received my first Freedom Wig! The hair was long, beautiful, so soft and the cap was so comfortable; but best of all, it was completely secure. After I had it cut and styled, my mom and I both cried tears of joy. This wig was a "game-changer" .
When I say it changed my life, I do not say it lightly; I was able to do the things I loved to do without all the anxiety I had about wearing a wig.
( Photo: This was the moment I saw myself after the stylist had finished cutting and styling my first Freedom wig)
My Freedom Wig was secure and looked more like my natural hair than I could have ever imagined, I felt confident again. I was always strong-willed, and was never too concerned about what others thought. I didn't like to wear the things everyone else was wearing, I was a bit of a rebel. Losing my hair had made me so self-conscience.
I've always known that my confidence should come from inside...not from my outer appearance...but before I found Freedom Wigs, people would stare and ask questions like "do you have cancer?" I just wanted to run and hide. Fear destroyed my confidence.
The security and beauty of my Freedom Wig restored my confidence. Best of all, I realized that I didn't think about my baldness, every minute of every day the way I did before I found Freedom.
(Photo: A car selfie, the day I got my first Freedom Wig styled.)
My Active Lifestyle
My Freedom vacuum hair piece, allowed me to keep being active. I wasn't afraid to swim, ride horses, drive my convertible, go to Six Flags and ride the roller-coasters, go out on a speed boat or even zip-line through the trees in the mountains. This is a picture of a Zip-Lining trip with my family. Before I had my Freedom Wig, I would have dreaded having a hot sweaty, stinky wig plastered to my head when I took the helmet off a few hours later!
With my Freedom Wig, sweat doesn't soak into the hair like it does with a regular wig. The Freedom Wig, vacuums to my head with air-permeable silicone which covers the entire inside of the wig, no part of my scalp touches the hair on the wig.
(Photo: Joe ( brother), Joey (fiancé'), Me , Carla & Keith ( my parents).
During the spring of 2017, my hair started to grow back for the first time in 5 years, and by July, I stopped wearing my wig. My Alopecia Universalis went into remission. I started having steroid shots every month to help with the spots where I had hair loss. Gradually over that summer my eyebrows, eyelashes and body hair came back!
My Hair Finally!
My hair grew in very dark brown and thick, just like my Dad's use to be. It was nice to have my own hair, I knew there was always the possibility that I could lose it again, but I was determined to enjoy it while I had it! I managed to keep my bio-hair for almost 2 years, until my last semester of college, then it started thinning again, and I was back to trying toppers, and extensions to cover up the spots.
(Photo: My wonderful fiancé Joey )
I graduated from college and received my BA in Criminal Justice. I also received my P.O.S.T. certification as a law enforcement officer. My hair was really patchy here, I had been receiving steroid shots, and using Minoxidil but it seemed like the spots just moved around, I call this phase of hair loss, my "what-a mole" phase! It took a lot of colored hairspray and Topik to cover my spots on graduation day!
(Photo: My mom and I celebrating after my graduation! I made my graduation cap in honor of my Dad, he loved Star Trek! )
Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow
I lost more than 50% of my hair over the summer so I made the really tough choice to shave. I am fortunate to have my Freedom Vacuum wigs to wear, but I confess that really miss my own hair. I have two new Freedom pieces on order, a short one to wear for work as a police officer, and a long one for my wedding in March!
(Photo: I may have lost my hair but I still have my best friend Spencer, he's bigger and I'm balder.)
Strength and Courage
My mom has always said I was "strong and courageous", long before I lost my hair. Some days I do not feel like I am either, but I do know that living with Alopecia takes a lot of strength and a lot of courage!
I started my new career as a police officer in June where no one knows I have Alopecia. Funny Story: After I had been riding with my FTO (Field Training Officer) for many weeks, he mentioned that the reason he had white hair was because "he used to have a disease called Alopecia which caused him to loose all of his hair, and when his hair grew back, it grew back white". I told him I understood Alopecia all too well, because I had had it since I was 14. He was completely stunned when I showed him that I was wearing a wig! He had no idea!
I was married to my husband Joey the week the week the world shut down. We were notified 3 days before the wedding that our venue was cancelling our wedding for 165 guest due to Covid-19. We were all completely devastated, but were determined to have a wedding in order to get married own our day!
We only 48 hours to pull off a wedding with 25 total people, but we did it! We had 6 guest outside of the wedding party, the pastor, and the musician. It was a magical day and everyone had so much fun!
Back the Blue
As a Police Officer we are suppose to wear our hair short or in a bun so a perpetrator couldn't use a ponytail to their advantage in a fight.
My Freedom wig probably wouldn't even come off even in a tussle,
but wouldn't it be fun to see the look on their face if it did!! (-;
Career 2022 Update:
I am a detective now, and I am now working days. On a busy day, I sometimes have to attend court in the mornings, then in the afternoon work a crime scene (in the extreme Georgia heat) then head back inside and try to look professional while interviewing someone.
Fortunately, the heat doesn't destroy me the way it used to when I had to wear cloth,wefted, or lace-front wigs. When they got hot, itchy and sweaty,they stayed hot itchy and sweaty all day!
This isn't a problem with my Freedom Hair.. Due to the silicone vacuum I can pop it off, wipe my head off, or swish a little water around the inside of my cap and I'm cool again!
With no tapes or glues to deal with, it takes about 3 seconds to put my wig back on. Wearing a Freedom Wig realy has improved the quality of my life! Stay Safe!
2021-2022 Post-Pandemic Vacations
When the weather turns warm, I head for the water. It could be the lake, the beach or my personal sized baby pool in my back yard! Summer of 2021, we spent a few days on the lake and also made a trip to Hilton Head in September. I really enjoyed the boat rides, naps in the sun, sunbathing, and dolphin watching !
My brother bought a sailboat this year, I can't wait to head out to the lake! This Freedom piece is a 14" 2/4 color (which appears slightly lighter due the sun and natural fading), in Extra Light density. If you are spending any amount of time in the sun, natural human hair will typically fade 2 shades over a 6 month period. I use different glosses and glazes to enhance the natural color, keep it vibrant!
One brand we recommend is Madison Reed, it is not expensive
and washes out in 6-8 shampoos.
I am still working as a detective and crime scene investigator.
People always ask me "How can you do a job where you have to see so many horrible things". As any first responder will tell you, you have to learn to separate your emotions from the task at hand in order to get the job done. What is really harder, is teaching yourself to feel your emotions again in your personal life. I probably learned a little bit about suppressing my emotions while growing up with alopecia, and dealing with a lot of grief. I am working on learning better coping skills to deal with my stress and my grief. I hope you are practicing good self-care yourself!
Recently, I tried a new look for my new Freedom Wig !
I went back to my natural color (at least the natural color before I lost my hair the first time) and I selected more curl this time.. For inquiring minds, this is a 12 ", #16 color, extra light density, no lift, and has 50% light wave and 50% light curl for the wave pattern. This photo is after I had low-lights with a darker bruntte added by our stylist ( so it does not look like a #16 here).
Because a hair piece does not have the natural oils from our scalps, the hair will naturally oxidize and fade. A rule of thumb is that it will fade 2 shades in about 6 months.
You can keep your hair's color vibrant by using glosses, glazes, or demi-permenant color. I apply a gloss or a glaze at home to keep my color looking good for 6-8 weeks, however I only have our stylist apply any color that is more permenant, like a demi-color because the products they use really are better, and I do not want to make any permenant mistakes when it comes to taking care of my Freedom Hair.
3rd Wedding Anniversary
My husband Joey and I were excited to celebrate our 3rd Wedding Anniversary with a cuise to the Western Caribbean.
When I showed my Mom this picture taken on our cruise, she showed me this photo of her with my dad when they were on a cruise in the Western Caribbean celebrating their 10th Wedding Anniversay. (-;
The Jaybird on my arm is in honor of my blue-eyed dad Jay.
Snorkling in the Caribbean
Happy Anniversay to my wonderful husband Joey!
We did a lot of snorkling and swiming on our trip, I am so grateful to have my Freedom Wig that allows me to go do whatever I want to whenever I want to without constantly being afraid my wig will shift or come off.
It has been a year since I received my latest Freedom Hair, I went lighter and curlier this time! I absolutly love having the same color I had when I was younger! After a year of daily wear, I cannot tell any difference between my piece now, and the day I had it styled. For those who want to know the specs on this Freedom, see the post from Fall 2022.
(This is Mom's favorite photo now, (-: )
I am still working as a detective, however I have recently started working on my Masters Degree. I am working to be a counselor who specializes in working with First Responders . (-:
Do what you love, love what you do!
RANDOM PHOTOS OF ME & MY FREEDOM WIGS
Virgin European Hair
The hair is so beautiful and soft. Freedom only uses hair which has never been processed or colored.
Sheriff's Explorers in High School
(16" Movement Freedom)
Just your everyday debriefing on hostage negotiation.
My Freedom Wig is great when I have to pull my hair back, because the baby hairs look so natural!
After styling for my first Freedom Wig
(16" "Movement" "Freedom)
Wearing my Freedom Wig is the next best thing to my natural hair, there is simply no comparison to the Freedom Vacuum Wig for people who have no hair.
(16" Movement Freedom)
My awesome college roommate, Abbey
(16" Movement Freedom)
Working an event at Disney World. When it is really humid and hot, I just put some cold water in my cap, wipe off my head, and pop it back on. The vacuum does not need tape, or glue to stick to your head, the vacuum is secure. The best part is that I don't have sweaty hair, or stinky wet wefting like you get with regular wigs.
Lake Hair Don't Care
My vacuum cap is always secure, and I can swim or ski with without worrying about it coming off.
Visiting my Grandparents
(16" Light Curl Freedom)
Thanksgiving with Family
My VW Bettle Convertible
(16" Movement Freedom)
Our scarves were for keeping the hair out of our eyes, I was never worried about losing my wig!
Up-Do for Prom
My vacuum cap is always secure! Baby hairs cut around the edge of the wig, help to create a very natural look when I pull my hair up in an up-do or just a ponytail.
(16" Light Curl Freedom)
I went as a "China Doll", the ponytails were no problem because no matter where you part the Freedom wig it always looks like your own natural scalp. The entire silicone inside the cap is selected to match your skin tone.
(12" Light Curl Freedom)
While I am waiting for my new Freedom wigs to arrive, I cut my" light curl" wig to shoulder length. It is definitely fuller than I am used to, so I ordered my new wigs with a lower density.
With Freedom wigs you order the color, density, scalp color and wave pattern of your choice,
Stay tuned for more pictures of my new Freedom pieces coming soon!
My latest 14" Freedom Hair
Specs for my newest Freedom I have on order!
14" Color:Dark Brown 50% #2 , 50% #4
Density: Extra Light
I'm so excited about my new pieces! I ordered two this time, one long for my wedding, and one that was short for work. I had a new 3-D scan taken recently because has been over 5 years since my first mould was made . Freedom recommends updating your 3-D scan every 5 years for adults, and every year for children.
My latest 8" Easy Short Freedom
I've been a police officer about 18 months , sometimes it is just easier to wear less hair. My problem is that people think I look too young to be a cop when I wear my short wig ( I'm 23). I like having the flexibility to go short or long. No one else I know can get two haircuts int he same day!
Specs for this Freedom:
8" Color:Dark Brown 50% #2 , 50% #4
Density: Extra Light
Wave: Straight/Movement 50% -50%
This is the up-do I styled myself for my wedding! It took me a few hours, but I also did not have time to get nervous because it kept me busy!
This is the same wig that is in my latest 14" wig photo above.
Our Big Day!
(Covid-Covid go away....)
We were notified 3 days before the wedding that our venue was cancelling our wedding for 165 guest due to Covid-19. We were all completely devastated, but were determined to have a get married own on our day. We only 48 hours to pull off a wedding with 25 total people, but we did it! We had 6 guest outside of the wedding party, the pastor, and the musician. It was a magical day and everyone had so much fun!
Gillian & Joey
Guess who is wearing a wig? ( Just me !)
I am an only child and my Mom and I are very close, it was a big day for her too! She would do anything in the world for me.